Yeah, I don't think Steve is the "ten shekels and a shirt" type of preacher either (see Judges 17).Ofcourse I could always buy Steve a house here beside me and pay him a nice salary to be my "pastor". But something tells me that he wouldn't like living in the house that my salary could afford..lol God bless

I don't see anything wrong with attending more than one fellowship as long as you are developing and maintaining relationships with other Christians. There should be no reason why you couldn't go to a Sunday service at one church, a mid-week bible study at another, and a home fellowship at still another. I think that sort of diversification can be healthy and help break down some long-held traditional expectations about "belonging" to a local church.
Anyway, I pray that you and your wife are able to come to some arrangement where you can worship and fellowship with other Christians together as a couple/family.
Lord bless.