A poor analogy: My son has at various times done things to incur my anger (as all kids do, especially when they're teenagers). The things that particularly might draw my wrath were behaviors that I thought might be hurtful to him in the long run. At those times, my anger (which I felt as a result of how much I love him) drew me closer to him, not farther away. In other words, I wanted to confront him with his wrongdoing and convince him to see his error and change (ie, repent). Of course, sometimes I also had to stand back and let him learn a lesson the hard way, but this was still motiivated by how much I love him.
I don't think God is freaked out by our sin. In fact, He took on flesh and put Himself right into the deepest, darkest midst of our sin. Not only that, for us, He became sin, that we might become the righteousness of God.
I love the story in Genesis 4 where God counsels Cain about his sin. What I see in that story is that God knows Cain's weakness and is pulling for him. When Cain murders Abel, God doesn't smite him (or tell him he's going to Hell), but puts a mark of protection on him (although Cain still pays the price for his sin in the form of exile).
The pattern I see over and over with the folks I minister to in the jail is that they walk under a cloud of condemnation. They see themselves as sinners and losers and of little value. The hopelessness is palpable. With that low view of oneself, why not use drugs or sell your body or drive drunk or get in a fight. The thing that I see break through all that is the same thing that broke through for me, which is a revelation of God's love.
Hey, someone should write a song about that. They could call it "Your Love Broke Through".
