TK wrote:i sense aarons frustration with this discussion and i can relate. aaron (correct me if i am wrong AD) is viewing this from a very practical standpoint. i agree with Steve G that if all Christians behaved like they were supposed to, we could have differing opinions and still get along peacefully. but we know from practical experience that this generally isnt the case (there are exceptions; steve mentioned a couple). but in the typical denominational church this sadly is not the case. so in a sense fellowshipping with those who hold similar views than yourself cuts through a lot of distractions and allows learning and growing to take place. if there is constant disputing over non-essential matters, this would be frustrating to established believers and discouraging to new ones.
I think I disagree.
I would assert that it is crippling to Christians when they only interact with other Christians who believe exactly as they do. This holds true culturally and theologically. IMHO, it seems immaturity and an inappropriate attachment to an idea (over the truth) leads many to sequester themselves in a homogenous group to their own detriment. This attitude can create an environment where people stop thinking for themselves and need someone to tell them how to think (Mormons or JW's). Diversity in ideas is good for the Body of Christ.
Take this forum. It is filled with folks who disagree on all kinds of things. There are even some that do not follow Christ. Yet I (and many would agree) have grown and continue to do so because of the interaction on the issues to which Christians agree. Imagine how much you'd learn and grow in Christ if this forum were a local meeting of believers.
Growth in Christ is not only intellectual assent to truth, but the practice of Godliness through unity, righteousness and love. Believers find the truth when they are motivated and passionate about studying the Scriptures and following Jesus. Discussions over secondary issues can become distracting, but that is generally avoided when done in the love and unity of Christ. What can be frustrating and divisive about debates over secondary matters is when either party (or both) are more interested in winning the argument than the unity of the body of Christ. However, when we care more about the unity of Christ than making everyone agree with us, God is glorified.
Remember, there is nothing to be afraid of. The truth always has the best arguments and will be found by those who earnestly and humbly seek it.
Dave