God is not incapable of saving everyone. He has made salvation available to all men, yet all do not accept it. They are punished because they do not want Him. Not the other way around. He has already shown that He is willing when He sent His Son to die for our sins.1. Is God either incapable of saving everyone, or is he unwilling?
God withholds punishment, because He is merciful, and not willing that any should perish (2Pet3:9). Should someone in the face of God and His mercy, rebel against Him until the end, they are merely getting what they want. That being said, I think that God does punish people (on earth) and bring about circumstances that would push them to Himself, but those that continue to hate Him will be judged. That is what the bible says.2. Why would God withhold his punishment until it is too late to do anything about it?
Justice. (keep in mind that I do not believe in eternal conscious torment).3. What purpose could be served by "eternal" punishment?
No. I don't think the punishing lasts forver, only the punishment.4. Is it just to punish someone forever for a few years of disobedience?
I don't see the point of this. If all that are left are those in Christ, death has been destroyed. Death is annihilated right along with everything else.5. How can death be destroyed if most people are annihilated?
This is one of the more appealing points in favor of universalism. However, I think that the bible teaches that Christ is already the victor, having made a way for all that are willing to be saved (Col 2:15).6. If most people go to hell then isn't Satan the greater victor?
I don't have a satisfactory answer for this question I'm afraid. This is one of the hardest quesitons for an arminian to answer. Calvinists of course would say that anyone who doesn't get saved are not elect. I am not, as of now, convinced that Calvinism is true, so all I can say is, God is just, and whatever happens to them will be just. I would also add, that all people deserve hell. It is the guilt of sin, that all men are guilty of, that sends one to hell, not the fact that they havin't heard of Jesus.7. What about that guy in Timbukto who never hears the Gospel in his lifetime? (this applies to most of mankind who has ever lived)
God bless,