Why don't you see it as a huge issue? If you interpret the passages in the way that teaches against it, it seems like pretty clear teaching and disregard would be blatant disobedience. If you interpret them otherwise, then I see no reason other than pragmatic ones to discourage women. Some just sort of don't care what Scripture teaches (I know you're not in that camp, but if your church does so, I would see that as a big deal).mattrose wrote: 3. I've questioned the appropriateness of female pastoral/elder leadership. Though I myself don't consider this a huge issue. The Wesleyan Church is passionate about getting women involved in leadership.
Also, how is Wesleyan different from United Methodist? UMC is pretty dogmatic on infant baptism, for example, though I can't pin them down on their reasons for women leadership other than social correction of past discrimination and political awareness (not very good reasons in my opinion).