It is a pretty bad word picture.MichelleM wrote:(Plus, a weird image is now in my head of meat that has been chewed on for centuries)

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It is a pretty bad word picture.MichelleM wrote:(Plus, a weird image is now in my head of meat that has been chewed on for centuries)
I cannot speak for anyone else. I can only tell you how holdling the Calvinist position affected me at age 16-25.I’m struggling to find any practical application to this debate in my Christian life. How differently does a Calvinist relate to his wife from a non Calvinist? Raise his children, witness to a stranger, work with his co-workers or give advice to a dieing friend?
Calvinism, as represented by many Calvinists, has an essential gnostic flavor to it...("secret knowledge" available only to the initiated).Sean wrote:...It's almost as if the point is to learn the "hidden truth" about God....
God's decrees, as they are defined defined by Scripture, aren't confusing. Actually, they're really quite simple and easy to understand. Having never been a Calvinist, though I have tried to "see through Calvinistic lenses" (so to speak)...I've never fallen into this "trap" you speak about. Seeing God philosophically has never been an issue (or problem) for me. I've never seen reason to, for one thing.djeaton wrote:I think in lots of ways we fall into a trap of trying to figure God out and understand His ways instead of learning His heart and following His ways.
I would say that many of the fine points that come up in Calvinists V. Arminians aren't the meat of the Word at all...only so much philosophical mumbo jumbo (However, it seems like it might be around for a while)....Michelle wrote:One little thing...I'm not so sure that the fine points of soteriology are really the meat of the Word.
I grew up in an extremist Arminian church that fits your description. They were old-fashioned Pentecostal Wesleyans, with the "three works of grace". Very, very (very) "strict!"Matt wrote:I think the extreme forms of either calvinism or arminian have important and negative ramifications. Extreme calvinism can lead someone to think than holiness/sanctification are unimportant, which shows the world a very distorted view of God & His people. Extreme arminianism can lead someone to think they lose their salvation every day, which can make one extremely unstable and, once again, misrepresent Christianity.
I wonder if "moderate Arminians and Calvinists" are that...if they don't talk about it much, lolMatt also wrote:I don't think of moderate arminianism & moderate calvinism as being very different 'in practice.'
I had some Calvinists TELL me I wasn't saved till about 2.5 years ago. (This was when I was able to completely stop drinking alcohol). I was initially somewhat offended. However, since I knew they were Calvinists, I knew there wasn't going to be anything I could say to convince them otherwise...Thing is, I became a Christian before I got off alcohol (no matter what the Calvinists said). I didn't debate them about it.Lastly, Matt wrote:For example, let's say 2 such people are in conversation and they bring up an old friend who is a professing Christian, but has been living a very wicked and rebellious life. The arminian may say he has lost his salvation. The calvinist may say he was never saved in the first place. But both of them would say he needs to come back to Christ. So while their diagnosis of the problem may be different, their cure is the same.
I met someone on a subway several years ago who had drifted in his walk with Christ. He had been taught the Calvinist position that he was never saved in the first place. But he was certain that he had been born again. The Calvinist teaching "threw him for a loop". When I met him he was feeling hopeless, very confused and despondent.I had some Calvinists TELL me I wasn't saved till about 2.5 years ago. (This was when I was able to completely stop drinking alcohol). I was initially somewhat offended. However, since I knew they were Calvinists, I knew there wasn't going to be anything I could say to convince them otherwise...Thing is, I became a Christian before I got off alcohol (no matter what the Calvinists said). I didn't debate them about it.
And here is a problem with Calvinism I overlooked. In a case where a person became a Christian and then fell away as I certainly did for many years, how could they ever, if Calvinist doctrine is correct, have any assurance of salvation, or hope, if they came to Christ again in the future. Nothing but despair.I met someone on a subway several years ago who had drifted in his walk with Christ. He had been taught the Calvinist position that he was never saved in the first place. But he was certain that he had been born again. The Calvinist teaching "threw him for a loop". When I met him he was feeling hopeless, very confused and despondent.