Todd,
You said:
(A) And also, what did Paul mean in Romans 1:18-32 when he points out the the wrath of God is already being poured out on the ungodly?
(B) Also, in Romans 13, Paul says that the governing authorities are God's agent to execute his wrath.
(C) 8. Why would God who said, "But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you," send His enemies to hell?
According to your point (C), how could God do (A) or (B)? How could He punish anyone either in this life or after?
Much of the difficulty we have regarding universalism is due to the exegesis of scriptures being affected by reading through the lens of emotionalism. "How could a good God be like _________?" We see in the Old Testament that God acted many times in ways beyond our understanding. Why did He command the slaughter of people, men, women, and
innocent children? Why did he slay Uzza for merely touching the arc
when Uzza only meant to prevent damage to the arc?
As Derek mentioned, for the Calvinist the answer is easy regarding the proverbial "man in the jungle". For me, I rest myself in my confidence that God is both just and merciful, and am fully confident He will do what is right, even if in my fallible mind I do not understand His reasons.
In regard to your point (C) above, If someone murdered your child before you eyes, could you forgive him? I have seen the testimony of a Christian mother who did that very thing. If you forgave him, could you testify against him in court to enable justice to be carried out, whatever that might be, or would you refuse to testify if that would set him free?