RV wrote:My question (which has probably been asked a million time, but I want to start a fresh thread) is: how do you reconcile Matt 12:32?
I am assuming you mean how can Matt 12:32 be reconciled with the position of the universal reconciliation of all to God. Because "universalism" in our day often refers to the position that every one will automatically be with God forever, whether he repents or not, I don't personally identify with the term or accept the appellation "universalist".
Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man, it will be forgiven him; but whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit, it will not be forgiven him, either in this age or in the age to come. (Matt 12:32)
Our Lord made this statement in the context of the Pharisees saying that He cast out demons through the prince of demons. However, the fact is that our Lord cast out demons through the Holy Spirit. So the Pharisees were blaspheming against the Holy Spirit. To attribute the working of the Spirit to demons is a mind set which tends to be permanent and unchangeable. However, this passage does not mean that such a person has no hope for a future repentance and forgiveness under the severe discipline of Gehenna (unless one assumes that "the age to come" means "eternity")
Also:
Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it. (Mat 7:13-14)
Yes indeed, there are few who will enter life in the first resurrection when Jesus returns, in my opinion, fewer than one tenth of one percent of all people. They are those who are on the narrow path, and remain on it or get back onto it before death. The rest are on the road that leads to destruction. "Destruction" does not mean "annihilation".
I invite you to consider how “destroy” is sometimes used in the scriptures as shown in the following passage from I Peter 1:3-7
Praise be the God and Father of the Anointed Lord Jesus, who, in keeping with His great mercy has regenerated us for the purpose of a living hope, through the resurrection of the Anointed Jesus from the dead, into an incorruptible and undefiled inheritance reserved in heaven for you, who, by the power of God are guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed at the last time. In this you exult, yet for a little while, if necessary, grieving in various trials in order that the testing of you of the faith, very valuable, gold being destroyed through fire, yet being tested, may be found for praise and glory and honour at the revealing of Jesus the Anointed.
Peter compared the testing of his readers' faith to gold being destroyed by fire. Now we all know that pure gold cannot be destroyed by fire. It can be melted, but cannot be destroyed (in the usual sense of the word). What then, did Peter mean? Did he not mean that gold in its original form (gold ore) can be destroyed by fire so that the pure gold can come forth? Was he not referring to the refining process? When we undergo various trials, our character can be refined. Our faith can be tested; it can "go through the fire", but not be destroyed by the fire, but refined.
But who can endure the day of His coming? And who can stand when He appears? For He is like a refiner‘s fire and like fullers’ soap. Malachi 3:2 RSV
Both fire and soap can purify. That is what the Lord can do for a person, and sometimes He does it through trials.
Someone may object that some translations refer to gold as being “perishable” in I Peter 3:7, and again in verse 18, where Peter clearly speaks of gold being perishable.
1 Peter 1:18 knowing that you were not redeemed with corruptible things like silver or gold from your futile way of life inherited from your forefathers.
However,Peter used a different word from that which he used in verse 7. The word is better translated as “corruptible”. The Greek word is the adjective “phthartos” which is derived from the verb “phtheirō”. The Online Bible Lexicon gives the following note for the latter word:
In the opinion of the Jews, the temple was corrupted or "destroyed" when anyone defiled or in the slightest degree damaged anything in it, or if its guardians neglected their duties.
So gold can be corrupted in this sense, it can be scratched or dirtied, or altered in other ways. But pure gold cannot be “destroyed” in the usual sense of “destroy”, at least not by fire.
Now to complete what I believe to be our Lord's meaning of destruction of those who travel the broad way. They will suffer a very severe refinement in the fires of Gehenna (of which Christ warned people) which will destroy their sinful, wicked natures, until the pure “gold” comes forth. Of course, they, themselves will have to repent and submit to Messiah Jesus in order for the refining process to be effective. And possibly, the fully mature sons of God will have a part in bringing the truth to these people. Sometimes, the righteous suffer such a refining process in this life. The refining of the wicked in that day will be much, much, more severe. Perhaps less refining will be necessary for those who have never heard the gospel in this life (some of them have never heard of Jesus). Whatever the case, God will do what is best for every individual.