No amount of double-speak can make a square circle logical, and perhaps Calvinists should act less like that's possible, and not complain when people don't accept it.And it saddens me that no matter how hard I try to convey these points I have a hard time getting back responses deeper than the level of "if God causes x then man cannot be responsible for x."
Sure, if God causes X, then man can be punished for X. But like "free will" Calvinists make the word "responsible" no longer mean the ability to respond (response-able). Indirect causation does not lessen the responsibility you carry for causing something. When King David killed Uriah through indirect causation God held him fully responsible. Why would God not hold himself responsible as well, for indirect causation? If we want to say God "causing" evil is just a necessarily mysterious paradox but he's never really "guilty" for it because he can betray his own character if he so pleases, and has a "dark" side that wants to get evil things done for his glory, we can accept this doctrine as something unknowable like the Trinity. But if we say Scripture necessarily teaches it or if we say God can still be entirely holy and good, I don't see any justification for that. Scripture makes a point of saying that God is light in whom is no shadow of turning, and Calvinism really puts a lot of dark shadows into the heart of God. Think of all the worst evils that have happened in this world, and imagine a God that doesn't just allow the possibility through rebellion, but actually desires for his own creation to harm and blaspheme each other and God, and then with no other possible course of events, deliberately and meticulously decrees and enforces every evil thing that ever happens. Then no longer does God even have any real enemy, as Scripture says he does, but Satan is a servant of God accomplishing all his will. This is not the same thing as God using Satan for something or redeeming something Satan does; Satan's heart to still, kill and destroy, to blaspheme God in the worst way imaginable, and to disgrace and torment what is valuable to God created for his glory: all of that, we find in Calvinism, is God's own heart and pleasure to do. To be a true and consistent Calvinist you really have to fully swallow that. The vilest of evils is God's idea, God's good pleasure, and God's enforcing decree, and so the "enemy" of God is a paper tiger and a deception of all the meaning that could really be in the word enemy. And some people do accept that Satan is God's ally, that Serpent of old deceiving and corrupting the whole world and declaring himself to be god, who will one day be confined to the bottomless pit.I appreciate that you don't see the point here, but it seems perfectly clear to me that there is no logical or theoretical problem with a situation where God causes a person to intentionally and willfully desire to commit sin and then justly punish the man for committing that sin, because the man's sinful conduct comported with the man's own evil desires.
Calvinists end up accepting a doctrine they simply don't fully think out the ramifications of: complete Divine determinism. Here's a paper ruminating on interpreting every Scriptural passage in this light:
http://evangelicalarminians.org/wp-cont ... -Texts.pdf