The Arminian often says that there is no merit in accepting a gift. For instance, if someone offered you a million dollars, and you accepted, there was no merit involved.If a beggar receives a gift does that mean he earned it? Does that make him an employee of the giver? Is his gift taxable income? Or is it no longer a gift if he accepts it?
First, you can not equate this with receiving Christ. Do you know of any rational person who would not accept the gift of a million dollars? I would dare say there are none - perhaps a billionare who does not need it. And that's the point - there are plenty of people (perhaps the majority of people) who will reject the Gospel and eternal life. So there is something deeper going on here, something more. Something that would be worthy of merit - if it came from us.
Second, I believe that faith is a gift, but not all men have faith according to Paul. So obviously faith is not gifted to all men. And if you say that faith is not a gift then we are back to the same old problem. Why are you different than your finally lost neighbor? Did you make yourself different or did God?