Do you really think anyone thinks it is a sin to die?
I believe the point Jepne was making was the following:
God (we all know) loves sinners, and desires them to be saved.
This is true even of those who ultimately reject Him in this life (unless we are Calvinists. If we are Calvinists, all bets are off as to whom God may or may not love!).
This being so, we must assume that those who die without repentance are people whom God loved, and whom He wished would have repented. This is stated unambiguously, in Ezek.33:11—
‘As I live,’ says the Lord GOD, ‘I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, O house of Israel?’
If God loved these people and would have welcomed their repentance before death, but does not love and wish their repentance after they have died, then is it something in God that has changed at the death of the sinner, or is it something in the sinner that changes at death? Surely, it cannot be a change in God, since God would then be undergoing character change thousands of times a day, as individual sinners succumbed.
If it is something in the sinner that causes God to stop loving him when he dies, then what has transpired in the sinner, between the moment
before and the moment
after death, to create this divine antipathy toward him ? What, that is, other than death itself?
If it is death itself that changes a sinner from an object of God's love to an object of God's hatred (or even God's apathy), then there must be some grievous fault imputed to the sinner for having died.
The sinner's succumbing to death, then, must be a very great sin! Greater, in fact, than the sum total of all the sinner's lifetime sins, since those sins were not able to extinguish God's love for the sinner. The involuntary act of dying, then, is treated as an offense greater than all voluntary sins of a lifetime, in that it, alone, can extinguish the love of God for the sinner.
The above would seem to be inescapable logic, if God does not love those in hell.