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Post by _Mort_Coyle » Sat Jan 26, 2008 2:06 am

One thing that would be real helpful for spiritual leaders (many, or most, on this forum, huh?) is to discuss what healthy, “protective vigilance” leadership looks like. A description of what it is instead of what it isn’t.
I think, first and foremost, what it is is relational. Someone earns the right to speak into my life by walking in relationship with me, not simply because they hold a position or title. The picture I see in the New Testament of leaders is that they are recognized by how they live their lives and care for others in the community. John Wimber used to say, "If you want to know who the elders are, they're the ones who are elding." I've been in fellowships where there are certain men and women, usually older and wiser, that people tend to seek out for council. When they speak, it carries weight. These, IMHO, are the real spiritual leaders, not necessarily the guy up front with the title.

I have people in my life who I consider spiritual authorities, but it is because I consider them authoritative, not because they position themselves so. They would pull me aside and correct me if they thought it was necessary, but it would be as a friend, not as a superior. It would be the furthest thing from their minds to try to control others. As Graham Cooke says, "The only form of control that is acceptable in the church is self-control."
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Post by __id_2574 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:57 am

Hi Danny,

I really appreciate what you wrote about the relational aspect of spiritual leadership. I heartily agree that leaders have a responsibility to walk in holiness and humility, and as I Peter 5:3 says, not “lording it over those allotted to your charge, but proving to be examples to the flock.”
Someone earns the right to speak into my life by walking in relationship with me, not simply because they hold a position or title.
There’s something, however, that just doesn’t sit right with me about this statement. Maybe I’m just not understanding it right. Doesn’t the N.T. seem to exhort us to be subject to our appointed elders – no matter what kind of relationship they have with us? That it’s because of their position that we are biblically obligated to listen to them?

Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls as those who will give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with grief, for this would be unprofitable for you. (Hebrews 13:17)

You younger men, likewise, be subject to your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble. (I Peter 5:5)

And we know from Paul’s church planting example, and from his instructions to Titus in Titus 1:5, that elders are appointed. (“For this reason I left you in Crete, that you would set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you …”) They don’t just choose themselves out – though it is expected that men should desire to “aspire” to such a position in the church. (See I Timothy 3:1) So aren’t we obligated to “be subject” to any elder who is appointed … whether or not we have a relationship with him? Is the authority of our church leaders based in our relationship with them, or in the position given to them when they are appointed by whoever it is that appoints them?

And one other thing that tugs at my mind here: These were booming communities of disciples we’re talking about … not just a few small house churches. How would it have been possible for the elders in these places to have the kind of relationship you mention with all these people? So what would the elders’ authority here have been based on … their relationship with the people, or their position as appointed elders?

Again, I would point as a like-example to the husband’s role of leadership in the marriage. Is it based on his position as husband, or on the earned respect from his wife?

I strongly believe that leaders in the church do need to earn their place of leadership – their place of authority to “rule” in the body. (They certainly have to qualify according to all that’s in the I Timothy and Titus lists.) But don’t we need to honor these appointed positions with all due respect whether or not we know them well enough to respect them? Especially since we have tremendous freedom in regards to what church (and therefore church leaders) we choose to be part of?

I sure hope I’m not poking a hornet’s nest here. I just want to try and better understand our scriptural obligations as shepherds to our sheep and as sheep to our shepherds.

By His Grace,

Gregg
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Post by _darin-houston » Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:05 am

I'm very interested in the responses to Gregg's last comments. One point I would make is that the analogy to marriage is a bit interesting since the position of the husband is chosen by the wife who is to subject herself to him. He is not chosen for her (at least in our culture). She chooses based on her already existing relationship to subject herself to his leadership and recognize him as a leader when she agreed to marry him.
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Post by _Allyn » Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:36 am

darin-houston wrote:I'm very interested in the responses to Gregg's last comments. One point I would make is that the analogy to marriage is a bit interesting since the position of the husband is chosen by the wife who is to subject herself to him. He is not chosen for her (at least in our culture). She chooses based on her already existing relationship to subject herself to his leadership and recognize him as a leader when she agreed to marry him.
Beautifully stated, darin.

My wife has been married to me for 22 years and seems to want to stick around for that many more. We respect one another and never try to influence where ones place ought to be. We are truly one in Christ.
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Post by _Christopher » Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:25 pm

My thoughts go along pretty much with Danny's. There are men in my life that have earned my consideration and submission to their counsel by virtue of relationship and demonstrated wisdom in their own lives.

Gregg, I understand the scriptures you quoted sound very much like organizational leadership in our language (by biased translators) seen through the lenses of our modern church paradigm, but I think a deeper examination of those passages reveals a very different story. Perhaps another thread could be opened up about that to discuss those things.

I think one of the major factors to consider is that we live in a very different situation then the churches did back then. We have easy, instant, and direct access to not only the scriptures, but volumes of commentary as well. In the early church, the average Christian did not have this access. They had to depend on those that "labored in the word" (1Tim 5:17). You brought up Heb 13:17 and I'd like to suggest that the context for that is found earlier in the same chapter:

Heb 13:7
7 Remember those who rule over you, who have spoken the word of God to you, whose faith follow, considering the outcome of their conduct.
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I take exception with the translators choice to use "rule" instead of "lead" here because it directly contradicts what the Lord says elsewhere:

Matt 20:25-26
25 But Jesus called them to Himself and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and those who are great exercise authority over them. 26 Yet it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you, let him be your servant.
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But the point I'd like to make here is that the authority is in the word of God, not the office. The authority is strengthened by Godly conduct of the leader (not ruler).

That is very good advice. Submit to those who speak the word of God to you (even my 6 year old at times :oops: ), and follow the example laid out by those who are living it.
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Post by _Mort_Coyle » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:23 pm

Hi Gregg,

Thanks for taking the time to respond with your thoughts and with scripture. Christopher pretty much said what I would have said, but I'll try to add a little bit from my own perspective.
There’s something, however, that just doesn’t sit right with me about this statement. Maybe I’m just not understanding it right. Doesn’t the N.T. seem to exhort us to be subject to our appointed elders – no matter what kind of relationship they have with us? That it’s because of their position that we are biblically obligated to listen to them? (Hebrews 13:17) (I Peter 5:5)
As Christopher alluded to, there are cultural and translational issues here. Regarding Hebrews 13:17, the Greek word translated as obey is peitho. There was a Greek goddess named Peitho. She was the goddess of persuasion and seduction. The word peitho refers to persuasion, not blind obedience (there are other Greek words, used elsewhere in the NT which actually mean obey, particularly in reference to our obedience to Jesus). A better translation of Hebrews 13:17 would be "Allow yourselves to be persuaded by your leaders..." In other words, give them a fair hearing; the benefit of the doubt; lend them your ears; consider what they have to say. This reminds me of the way Quakers refer to certain individuals as "weighty Friends", which means their words carry weight and should be given serious consideration. This would have been especially true in the culture of the early church where, as Christopher pointed out, literacy was low and those with knowledge of the Hebrew scriptures were highly valued. The word peitho also brings to mind Luke's commendation of the Bereans who, only after carefully examining what Paul taught, allowed themselves to be persuaded.

The Greek word translated as "leaders" in Hebrews 13:17 (hegeomai) is a somewhat generic term meaning guide, leader, ruler, etc. In Jesus' view, however, leaders are to be "servants of all" (Matt. 20:25, Mark 10:42).

In my NIV Bible, the words "Obey your leaders..." are followed with "...and submit to their authority." In the Greek, "...to their authority." is absent. This was added by English translators. The word translated as submit is hupeiko, which means "to yield" or "to come into agreement".

So, to put this all together, I understand Hebrews 13:17 as saying, "Allow yourselves to be persuaded by your leaders and come into agreement with them." If one's leaders truly are servant-leaders and are mature. wise and weighty, then this admonition makes perfect sense.

But the fact that this passage is an admonition also makes it clear that "submission" is a choice (see also Phil. 2:5-11). Such a choice can only be made as a gift. In the NT church, submission to leaders is never demanded or forced. That would not be "submission" but subservience. Biblical "submission" to leaders is a freely given yielding of one's preferences in light of the trust earned by the leaders.

The same applies to 1 Peter 5:5
And we know from Paul’s church planting example, and from his instructions to Titus in Titus 1:5, that elders are appointed. (“For this reason I left you in Crete, that you would set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you …”) They don’t just choose themselves out – though it is expected that men should desire to “aspire” to such a position in the church. (See I Timothy 3:1) So aren’t we obligated to “be subject” to any elder who is appointed … whether or not we have a relationship with him? Is the authority of our church leaders based in our relationship with them, or in the position given to them when they are appointed by whoever it is that appoints them?
The word kathistemi has more to do in this context, I believe, with publically recognizing who the elders are, not with creating elders through ordination or appointment. In other words, Titus and Timothy were given instructions by Paul on how to recognize who the elders were. The elders (to go back to Wimber's saying) were already elding. These were existing Christian communities that Titus and Timothy were going to. Titus and Timothy were not bringing in hired pastors or conducting job interviews. Rather, they were affirming the people who were already naturally functioning as elders (according to Paul's guidelines, which emphasize character) within the communities. Titus and Timothy were publically putting their Apostolic seal of approval on these elders.
And one other thing that tugs at my mind here: These were booming communities of disciples we’re talking about … not just a few small house churches. How would it have been possible for the elders in these places to have the kind of relationship you mention with all these people? So what would the elders’ authority here have been based on … their relationship with the people, or their position as appointed elders?
Quite the contrary, these were in fact "small house churches" scattered throughout the cities and towns. Christians didn't begin meeting in dedicated church buildings until the 4th century. Prior to that time (and during the time the NT was written), churches met in homes and rented facilities (such as the school of Tyrannus). These would have been, by our modern standards, small gatherings. They also followed the synagogue model of being interactive and participatory. They looked nothing like the typical modern church service.

The members of these churches lived in close, familial community. They lived geographically close to one-another. They saw each other daily. Churches existed within neighborhoods. They had relationships (hopefully good, but sometimes strained) with other churches meeting in houses in other neighborhoods. So in an individual ekklesia (church), the people would have known each other very well, including the elders. It was only later that hierarchies and a seperate clergy class would develop and that church congregations would become large and diffuse.

A couple of good books on this topic:

Going to Church in the First Century by Robert Banks
http://www.amazon.com/Going-Church-Firs ... 0940232375

The Ancient Church as Family by Joseph Hellerman
http://www.amazon.com/Ancient-Church-As ... im_b_img_3

Rethinking the Wineskin by Frank Viola
http://www.amazon.com/Going-Church-Firs ... 0940232375
I strongly believe that leaders in the church do need to earn their place of leadership – their place of authority to “rule” in the body. (They certainly have to qualify according to all that’s in the I Timothy and Titus lists.) But don’t we need to honor these appointed positions with all due respect whether or not we know them well enough to respect them? Especially since we have tremendous freedom in regards to what church (and therefore church leaders) we choose to be part of?
To me, "honoring" someone in an appointed position means I'll give them the benefit of the doubt while I'm learning their character. But someone having an ordination paper or a title really doesn't mean much to me beyond that. I've known too many pastors who are just as screwed up and ignorant as anybody else. In some cases, more so.
I sure hope I’m not poking a hornet’s nest here. I just want to try and better understand our scriptural obligations as shepherds to our sheep and as sheep to our shepherds.
No worries Gregg. This is good dialog!
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Post by _Rick_C » Sat Jan 26, 2008 5:06 pm

Hmmm...I see this conversation is taking new directions.

This post (which has a great ETS paper) may be of interest (somehow) to y'all.

[quote="On Parchment & Pen blog, C. "Michael" Patton"]The following paper is an address given to the Evangelical Theological Society in 2003. Clinton Arnold is the author. I contacted Dr. Arnold a year ago and he was gracious enough to allow me to post it here on the Parchment and Pen Blog.[/quote]

Link:
ON EDUCATING NEW CHRISTIANS:
"EARLY CHURCH CATECHESIS AND NEW CHRISTIANS’ CLASSES
IN CONTEMPORARY EVANGELICALISM"

*Clinton E. Arnold is professor of New Testament at Talbot School of Theology,
13800 Biola Avenue, La Mirada, CA 90639.


A fairly long, but worthwhile read.
(May or may not be on-topic or related to where the discussion is going)...I don't know, I think TK might be able to use it, tho....
Rick
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Post by _Rick_C » Sat Jan 26, 2008 5:31 pm

P.S. This article is probably "on-topic" here to some extent (though obliquely, perhaps)....
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Post by __id_2574 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:14 pm

Hi Guys,

I should probably move this whole church leadership discussion over to the "Church Life" section. Sorry about moving things off-topic here.

Gregg
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