Hi Mike!
You said:
I want you to know every time you are ready to defend the subject of eternality of torment in hell it upsets me very much.
Just me or anybody? May be a moot point, though, as I seem to be rather alone representing what might be called the "traditional view".
Why do you speak with such authority?
Bad habit, easy to fall into after reading more than one bold statement from the other viewpoint.
Are you an expert in 1st century Greek? Are you so convinced of your knowlege in this area that you feel you need to correct others?
No and no.
May I politely request that when you defend your view of the word aionios, you do it without asserting things which you are not the final authority on? Perhaps you could qualify your statements with something like "in my view", or "I believe".
Are you requesting this of me alone, any who support the traditional view, or both sides? (Have you not noticed?)
After all, what you seem to be "defending" is the view that the unsaved will suffer for time without end. If this is not true, you may very well be attributing to God something which He might find very revolting (I know it is to me!).
If this is so, I am in company with most of Christianity. If it is true, would God be "revolting" to you? However it turns out, I am sure beyond doubt that God will do what is just.
For a lengthy treatment of this word: Aion
Interesting, but written from a universalist viewpoint.
There is a bigger issue involved in this matter, IMHO.

Do you believe in the perspicuity of the New Testament? That, at least in its important teachings, ordinary people who diligently study can understand the message? After all, this matter is as basic as it gets, Hebrews 6:2. When it is insisted that the Greek word
aionios never means eternal, and any ordinary student of the scriptures realizes it is the adjective used about nine times more often to describe the future state of the saved than it is to describe the state of the lost, any reasonable person ought to see the great damage that can be done to the hope of those who are trying to follow Jesus. A system is promoted where the lost are never permanently lost and the saved can have no certainty they are permanently saved.
I must add that my own view of hell is that the "fire" is a metaphor for something else (not a happy place), but that is another subject. And I will be perfectly happy if I am wrong about the permanent state of the lost. I do have the definate impression that the overriding reason the universalist position is advocated is a philosophical one. There is not one unambiguous statement in scripture in support of it.
Steve7150 wrote:
Homer, Are you a KJV only guy?
Not at all, but most of the concordances are keyed to it through Strong's.
Paidion wrote:
How about "It takes ages for him to get anything done"?
Good one there, Paidion!
May God bless you all! Have a wonderful Easter Sunday!