mattrose wrote:I think I've observed the opposite. In my experience, the more significance people place on communion doctrinally, the less meaningful it seems to be in practice, often resulting in a cold, dead ritual.
Matt, I would being willing to place a small bet on my belief that you have never participated in, or even observed, a Sunday morning meeting of Plymouth Brethren "to remember the Lord". Such a meeting takes place
each and every Sunday morning. Exactly what will take place in such a meeting is unpredictable, as I have observed over the many years I fellowshipped with the brethren. But here is an account which could describe one of the meetings:
You enter the Gospel Chapel or Gospel Hall, and two elders greet you warmly at the door. If you are unknown an enquiry is made concerning your relationship with Christ. If you simply affirm that you know Him, you will be received (if it's an assembly of "open" brethren), and will be invited to participate fully, both in the bread and wine, and in suggesting a hymn, offering prayer of thankgiving for Christ's sacrifice on our behalf, or in giving a short talk (provided you are male). Every hymn, every prayer, every talk is centered around Christ; He is exalted and praised throughout the meeting. I have heard thanksgiving offered by some eloquent Scotch elders which were about 30% poetry. There was no one sitting at the front or "leading" any part of the meeting. The elders sat in the pews like everyone else. There was nothing "cold" or "ritualistic" in
any of the "remembrance" meetings I attended.
If you are a stranger and the elders who meet you at the door, and from your words, they deem you to be a non-Christian, you will be invited to sit in a pew at the back and observe.
The bread and wine (not grape juice) will not be passed to you, but then neither will the collection bag.
A single loaf, and a single chalice of wine is used to represent the one body of Christ. The chalice is refilled if necessary.
After everyone has given extensive thanks and praise to the Father and the Son, then someone (not necessarily an elder or deacon) rises to his feet and gives thanks for the bread. The deacons pass it around. Then someone else rises and gives thanks for the wine, and it is passed around. Then the collection bag (not plate) is passed around to the brethren. This is the only meeting at which a collection is taken. There was a couple of pianos in the building I attended, but they were not used in the rembrance meeting. They were used in the evening at the gospel meeting when non-Christians were invited to attend. There was never a collection at the gospel meeting. The brethren are very careful not to take money from non-Christians.
Usually an elder gives announcements of upcoming events at this point, and the meeting is ended by singing another song.
I looked forward to the remembrance meeting every week.
Here's another interesting fact about the money. People usually put cash in an envelope to contribute. Everyone received a number which no one knew except the person receiving it. Let's say your number is 123. At the end of the year, the treasure adds all all amounts given by 123, and issues a charitable receipt with that number on the outside of an envelope and places it at the back of the chapel, along with everone else's . The treasurer
does not know how much any particular person gave! You go back and find the envelope with 123 on it, take home your receipt and fill out your name.