“What is a good question to ask a Mormon?” by a mormon.
Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2012 7:40 pm
Steve had a caller last month who asked what he could ask mormon missionaries that might actually make them stop and think. This is a long answer, but maybe you’ll find it is worth reading. I assume that the caller was asking this out of love for me and those of the church I belong to, so I’ll give you best answer I can give.
In short most mormons ignore attacks on their church the same way many evangelicals might ignore an atheist attack on the Bible. We love God, we trust God, and we are convinced that this is His church. We aren’t surprised that some people oppose it, so when someone has something negative to say about it, no matter how well thought out it may be, it really isn’t likely to leave a lasting impression.
If you want to do something meaningful for a mormon missionary, ask if they are interested in hearing why you believe in Christ, and then SHARE YOUR REASONS FOR BELIEVING WITH THEM. This isn’t to compete to see who can come up with the best reasons, it is to show them that your position is reasonable as well, and that God is active in your life, and the lives of other Christians too.
You might think this is fruitless advice, after all, I am still LDS and very devoutly so, but I can listen to criticisms and problems raised now and can take an honest hard look at them. Before meeting you all on TNP I dismissed criticisms before they were really even presented.
Let me explain why this might be. As a missionary, some of the nastiest encounters I ever had were the ones with people who had strong Christian convinctions. They would often yell at us, try to kick us out of neighborhoods, mock us, or they would invite us in only to try to trip us up on our words. I even had objects thrown at me on several occasions. It was all expected as part of spreading the gospel so I never took it personally, it actually added to my conviction that I was doing the Lords work. From my perspective, evangelical Christians were very much the Pharasees and Sadducees of our day. I would pray for these people, but I would never take the problems they raised seriously.
After hearing TNP radio show I found out that you guys have close relationships with the Savior too, and you aren’t just a bunch of angry loons.
I know now how thoroughly God works in your lives and in your churches. This allows me to look at the LDS church with healthy skepticism whenever I wish, while retaining my faith and trust in God because I can see more clearly that God works closely with people outside of the LDS church as well. Does that make sense? In other words, I can now see attacks against the LDS church as, attacks against the LDS Church, where before I tended to see them as attacks against God.
That is the gift that TNP has given me anyway and I treasure it. We rarely get to really see what evangelical Christianity is all about because once you guys find out we are mormon, the conversation quickly switches gears.
Also, for those who do end up losing their faith in the church, unless they are really shown good reasons to still believe in Christ, they often end up throwing their faith in God out as well. I know far more agnostic/atheist ex-mormons than I do Christian ex-mormons which is not good in IMO. If you insist on trying to plant doubt please expend at least as much effort to also plant something good to replace it with. That's reasonable right?
That’s my two cents anyway. I’d be interested in hearing your thoughts, and in hearing how it goes next time the mormons come knocking
This is probably also a good time to express my gratitude to Steve and those who call the show. Your faith, knowledge, conviction, and the struggles you share on the radio are very uplifting. I have called a time or two over the years with Bible questions without reminding you I am a mormon. Hopefully you don't find this to be sneaky or dishonest, I just don't always want the call focused around mormonism when I have other questions I'm looking for insight on.
In short most mormons ignore attacks on their church the same way many evangelicals might ignore an atheist attack on the Bible. We love God, we trust God, and we are convinced that this is His church. We aren’t surprised that some people oppose it, so when someone has something negative to say about it, no matter how well thought out it may be, it really isn’t likely to leave a lasting impression.
If you want to do something meaningful for a mormon missionary, ask if they are interested in hearing why you believe in Christ, and then SHARE YOUR REASONS FOR BELIEVING WITH THEM. This isn’t to compete to see who can come up with the best reasons, it is to show them that your position is reasonable as well, and that God is active in your life, and the lives of other Christians too.
You might think this is fruitless advice, after all, I am still LDS and very devoutly so, but I can listen to criticisms and problems raised now and can take an honest hard look at them. Before meeting you all on TNP I dismissed criticisms before they were really even presented.
Let me explain why this might be. As a missionary, some of the nastiest encounters I ever had were the ones with people who had strong Christian convinctions. They would often yell at us, try to kick us out of neighborhoods, mock us, or they would invite us in only to try to trip us up on our words. I even had objects thrown at me on several occasions. It was all expected as part of spreading the gospel so I never took it personally, it actually added to my conviction that I was doing the Lords work. From my perspective, evangelical Christians were very much the Pharasees and Sadducees of our day. I would pray for these people, but I would never take the problems they raised seriously.
After hearing TNP radio show I found out that you guys have close relationships with the Savior too, and you aren’t just a bunch of angry loons.

That is the gift that TNP has given me anyway and I treasure it. We rarely get to really see what evangelical Christianity is all about because once you guys find out we are mormon, the conversation quickly switches gears.
Also, for those who do end up losing their faith in the church, unless they are really shown good reasons to still believe in Christ, they often end up throwing their faith in God out as well. I know far more agnostic/atheist ex-mormons than I do Christian ex-mormons which is not good in IMO. If you insist on trying to plant doubt please expend at least as much effort to also plant something good to replace it with. That's reasonable right?
That’s my two cents anyway. I’d be interested in hearing your thoughts, and in hearing how it goes next time the mormons come knocking

This is probably also a good time to express my gratitude to Steve and those who call the show. Your faith, knowledge, conviction, and the struggles you share on the radio are very uplifting. I have called a time or two over the years with Bible questions without reminding you I am a mormon. Hopefully you don't find this to be sneaky or dishonest, I just don't always want the call focused around mormonism when I have other questions I'm looking for insight on.